Showing posts with label 1 Corinthians 14:34-35. Show all posts
Showing posts with label 1 Corinthians 14:34-35. Show all posts

Tuesday, February 22, 2011

One anonymous blog comment too many

A few days ago, an anonymous commenter dropped a comment on the "Pink Flamingos in a Sea of Blue Herons" piece I wrote. Said comment doesn't really require a response:
1 Corinthians 14:34-35 KJV Posted by: Man of God on February 19, 2011


It was just a warning to tell me I should be silent in the church, and in a preaching class, if I take the King James Version translation of the Bible seriously. It took him all of three seconds to write it. It took me all of three seconds to be steamed by it.

Here's why I didn't post a comment to follow it:

  • Man of God did not have the courage to tell me who he is. Unfortunately, this is not a trait I would associate with a "man of God." To have a conversation, I deserve to know who I am conversing with.
  • Man of God doesn't want to dialogue. He just wants to wield Scripture verses like a sword. So it's unlikely he'll care at all if I point out that Paul instructed women in his culture on "how" they should pray and prophesy in public in 1 Corinthians 11. He doesn't care to discuss or to dive in deeper, to have a thoughtful conversation on why two passages in the same letter seem to contradict each other, so responding would be fruitless.
  • The awful truth is, I was PMSing at the time, and I didn't believe my response would be redemptive, but reactive.
There you have it. That is my take on "Man of God." I do need to thank him for one thing. He got me thinking about the harm we cause by "drive-by" comments. Posting anonymously to make a point, without bringing ourselves into the light, without offering the love of Christ, doesn't help anybody, no matter what their viewpoint might be. I want desperately to discuss the difficult issues of the Christian faith with the wider body beyond my church. But in doing so, my speech must be kind, loving, and redemptive. Yes, ESPECIALLY on the Internet.

"Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer each person." 
-Colossians 4:6 ESV

Have you experienced painful "drive-by" comments? Do you believe we should reveal our identities when commenting on posts? Why or why not?